" RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS - FIFTY SHADES OF GREY TAKEAWAYS FOR THE EXCEPTIONAL MAN PART 3 "
This is part-three in my takeaways from the series so far. (I'm mid-way through the second book.) I'll give you what I got out of the book as well as a quick guide of how to apply them in your own love-life. More about what makes Christian Grey exceptionally passion-inspiring in Anna and women readers around the world.
- He feels how he feels. He gets mad. He gets frustrated. He lets her know he wants to take her and how. He expresses how he wants to control and dominate her. Translation: this is part of playing catch. It is okay for you to feel what you feel. Let it happen. Express it. Let her respond. If you need time to recover, take it. If you need to kiss her passionately. Do it. Don't wait for her to give you the steal signal. But if she doesn't kiss back. Don't pout. Don't act offended. Smile. Thank the gods for a woman who challenges you. And then go find something to do. Until next time.
- Doesn't let his feelings overwhelm or control him. He keeps track of where she is. Her response to him is not a judgment or personally offensive to him. He's not trying to prove anything. How to use it: you need to unhook from personal. You must stop trying to prove anything to her. Stop trying to get anything from her. This is hard to do. But when you can do that, you will be able to see what she needs. You will be able to let her response be what it is - just a response. She feels stuff. It's amazing and cute and a glimpse into who she is. Get curious about her.
- He understands that relationships are based on sex. There's a lot of BS about tenderness and affection. Closeness and togetherness. Truth is relationships at their base are about sex. No sex? No attraction? No relationship. How to use it: you need to get over your need for affection from her. You need to be able to think of her as a sexual creature fundamentally. Deep inside she has a Jenna Jameson waiting to get out. Why do women like to look pretty? And dress sexy? What's with all that make-up and hair-primping? It's the same as the peacock's feather display. The robin's mating call. We are animals. She wants a man who understands that and let's her be that. In fact, embraces that side of her. And the affection will come. Sex just has to be there first.
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" Valued Lessons "
I just witnessed my daughter graduating from high school. This has seemed to have been a short eighteen years of teaching, training, and molding her into being the young lady she has become today. The primary focus and throughout the ceremony was letting this graduating class know how valuable each of them are to God; and what he or she will be able to accomplish and achieve through their life's journey beyond high school. As I sat and reflect back reminiscing over these four short years; experiencing this season of my daughter's life has been a blessing indeed.
Although her the high school career has come to an end, now another door is opening for her pursuing higher education with attending college. For each student that spoke and every speaker who stood and shared memories of their life journey, there is always a reflection on all the lessons learned while chasing a dream. Each person spoke of the self sacrifices that has to be made, the support from family and friends, and the hard work it takes to reach particular milestones in life and life beyond high school. For each of us; there are some test we will pass, and there are other test will we fail.
As long as we learn from each lesson, then there is always the possibility there is a certain amount of value added to our lives. What has be instilled in each person's spirit and mind in most instances will always be a friendly reminder of how they achieved and completed their goals, and reached a new chapter to pursue new endeavors on the horizon. There could never be an over emphasizing of the challenges, trials, disappointments, failures, and successes a person will have to endure to reach their full potential. There is never an easy road to travel when attempting to capture something of great worth. For everything we go through in this life is of value and should impact certain areas of our well-being. With drive, perseverance, and a commitment not to compromise to one's integrity, we all can be whatever we want to be in this life's stay. The valued lessons of discipline, diligence, faith and self-control are and should be practiced throughout our lives to pursuing anything worthwhile.
Doors open and close, the old passes away, and something new begins. We must be ready to take advantage of the opportunities when they presents themselves because another opportunity is a valuable lesson to be learned. One thing is certain, we must have a willing spirit to follow our dreams and must work at whatever it takes to achieve that dream. Lifetime family values of discipline, faith, and obedience are all part of the equation that brings out a person's lifestyle
.
The ceremony witnessed brought back memories of a lifetime when I reflect back at my own graduation many years ago. The years go by faster than we think and the lessons learned along the way has been etched in our minds that there are always memories of each and every experience that has been encountered. The avenues we travel are adventures with unknown certainties. What is certain is the foundation that has been laid and planted in each person's heart; which is something of much value; which is priceless.
Although her the high school career has come to an end, now another door is opening for her pursuing higher education with attending college. For each student that spoke and every speaker who stood and shared memories of their life journey, there is always a reflection on all the lessons learned while chasing a dream. Each person spoke of the self sacrifices that has to be made, the support from family and friends, and the hard work it takes to reach particular milestones in life and life beyond high school. For each of us; there are some test we will pass, and there are other test will we fail.
As long as we learn from each lesson, then there is always the possibility there is a certain amount of value added to our lives. What has be instilled in each person's spirit and mind in most instances will always be a friendly reminder of how they achieved and completed their goals, and reached a new chapter to pursue new endeavors on the horizon. There could never be an over emphasizing of the challenges, trials, disappointments, failures, and successes a person will have to endure to reach their full potential. There is never an easy road to travel when attempting to capture something of great worth. For everything we go through in this life is of value and should impact certain areas of our well-being. With drive, perseverance, and a commitment not to compromise to one's integrity, we all can be whatever we want to be in this life's stay. The valued lessons of discipline, diligence, faith and self-control are and should be practiced throughout our lives to pursuing anything worthwhile.
Doors open and close, the old passes away, and something new begins. We must be ready to take advantage of the opportunities when they presents themselves because another opportunity is a valuable lesson to be learned. One thing is certain, we must have a willing spirit to follow our dreams and must work at whatever it takes to achieve that dream. Lifetime family values of discipline, faith, and obedience are all part of the equation that brings out a person's lifestyle
.
The ceremony witnessed brought back memories of a lifetime when I reflect back at my own graduation many years ago. The years go by faster than we think and the lessons learned along the way has been etched in our minds that there are always memories of each and every experience that has been encountered. The avenues we travel are adventures with unknown certainties. What is certain is the foundation that has been laid and planted in each person's heart; which is something of much value; which is priceless.
